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06 April 2012 @ 12:00 pm
05 April 2012 @ 01:22 pm
Anyone moved lately? Good God, what a nightmare - And boy am I very glad that is over!
So now that 'The bigger than Ben Hur' move is out of the way I have decided to take a short sabbatical and will be heading north for a few weeks to rest and recuperate. While I'm away I will not be contactable by any means so best to hold off sending emails/text messages and making phone calls til I return the week commencing 23rd April.
Please note that I will not be accepting Applications for Detentions or Chastity programs after tomorrow,Good Friday, until after I return on the 23rd of April.
If you would like to arrange an appointment for the week commencing the 23rd April please contact me before 12pm this Sunday (Easter Sunday) as after that time I will be off air.
Wishing everyone a very Happy and safe Easter
See you when I get back!
Ciao!
So now that 'The bigger than Ben Hur' move is out of the way I have decided to take a short sabbatical and will be heading north for a few weeks to rest and recuperate. While I'm away I will not be contactable by any means so best to hold off sending emails/text messages and making phone calls til I return the week commencing 23rd April.
Please note that I will not be accepting Applications for Detentions or Chastity programs after tomorrow,Good Friday, until after I return on the 23rd of April.
If you would like to arrange an appointment for the week commencing the 23rd April please contact me before 12pm this Sunday (Easter Sunday) as after that time I will be off air.
Wishing everyone a very Happy and safe Easter
See you when I get back!
Ciao!
10 February 2012 @ 05:25 pm
I'm often contacted by couples seeking guidance in a number of areas concerning their female led relationship. Some couples are new to the concept, other couples are much more experienced. The help they seek could range between anything from perfecting caning skills to learning the art of Domination.
From time to time I'm also contacted by ladies who are fairly new to the concept of a female led relationship who wish to send their (also new to the experience) husbands along to me for discipline without having a real idea of what that actually involves.
In some cases I get a sense that the lady is really out of her depth but too embarrassed to let on that she is new and doesn't really know what to ask for so we get into all sorts of knots trying to work out how to proceed. As a result the outcome is fairly unproductive because I generally don't end up seeing the husband for discipline.
So I thought I'd take the opportunity to offer a better approach for any other ladies considering sending their husbands along to me for discipline under similar circumstances.
The first point I'd like to make is - ladies, if you are new to the experience of a female led relationship and you'd like some help, don't be embarrassed to say straight up that you are new. I understand, really. I am happy to help you.
The second point I'd like to make is that I offer discipline to consenting adults. This means I am happy to offer an appointment to (most) adults requesting discipline provided that person has arranged the appointment with me him or herself. Unfortunately this precludes anyone whose spouse has organised the session for them as the initial visit UNLESS the intended recipient is able to discuss the session with me in person prior to going ahead and has the freedom to set his or her own limits. By discussing the details of the session with the person who is requesting to be disciplined I am able to gain a fairly good understanding of the needs of the person and then tailor a session based on his or her unique requirements, something that would not occur if someone else were to organise the session for him or her, ie: in the case where the dominant spouse wants to arrange a certain punishment for the submissive spouse.
In the case of couples just starting out in a female led relationship what I suggest would be a far better approach is to contact me first with a view to coming along for an appointment as a couple and discussing with me together what your needs and desires are, and where you'd like to go as far as the discipline is concerned. We can discuss any number of options that then become available to you as far as I am concerned.
For example, it may be that after the initial meeting/session with you both, I am satisfied that your husband is quite agreeable to and capable of receiving discipline and has a genuine desire to be disciplined under these circumstances, and actually 'wants' a situation whereby he is ordered by you to receive a punishment from me. If this is the case, then I will be happy to have you send your husband along to me for discipline in the future. But not in the first instance if I have not met you both previously and been able to discuss the situation with you both as sensible adults freely able to speak your own mind.
Another possibility would be to set up a training session with me so you could learn to discipline your husband yourself.
I offer guidance to couples at any stage of the relationship, whether you're just starting out and wish to learn how to integrate the D/s aspect into your existing relationship, or simply need a little fine tuning in the discipline department, alternatively, the assistance you are seeking may involve targeted training in a number of areas.
I encourage you to come along as a couple; by meeting and working with you both I will be able to tailor advice and offer strategies and solutions specific to your needs, an approach which I believe will offer you the most benefit from the sessions.
It's my aim to ensure training sessions are as much fun as possible for everyone, with as little pressure as possible placed on anyone to 'perform'. I encourage you to bring along any existing implements, ideas, questions, and outfits for him or for you, as you see fit.
You may find that one weekend workshop is all that's needed. Or you may prefer several sessions spaced out over several weeks to help bring about the 'new order of things in your household'. Perhaps an intensive weekly program might suit you better. Some ladies have employed a combination of appointments with me to learn Disciplinary methods and other times come to see me with their husbands, as well as periodically sending their husbands to me for an hour or so for a little 'behaviour modification', just to help things along a little. However we proceed, it's whatever works best for you.
Mrs Birch
08 February 2012 @ 11:49 am
I've had a few people let me know that they've had trouble catching me lately so wanted to mention that if by chance you've tried to call but found me difficult to catch, please feel free to send me an email to let me know that you are trying to reach me and that you'd like to make an inquiry or that you wish to set up an appointment.
On weekdays I generally check my emails first thing in the morning before I begin any sessions, and again in the late evening, unless I am away from my computer for any reason, in which case I will check as soon as I am able, which generally means the next day. Weekends I may or may not be in front of the computer so it may be Monday before I reply.
Hopefully this year I will be a lot more accessible but here's a little sample of what I usually get up to when I'm not able to get to my phone....teehee This naughty boy drove a long way to be put into that position! OUCH!
Ciao!
On weekdays I generally check my emails first thing in the morning before I begin any sessions, and again in the late evening, unless I am away from my computer for any reason, in which case I will check as soon as I am able, which generally means the next day. Weekends I may or may not be in front of the computer so it may be Monday before I reply.
Hopefully this year I will be a lot more accessible but here's a little sample of what I usually get up to when I'm not able to get to my phone....teehee This naughty boy drove a long way to be put into that position! OUCH!Ciao!
04 February 2012 @ 12:02 pm
04 February 2012 @ 10:02 am
The other day I was asked if I would accept Gift cards as a payment for online Detentions, which I thought a really great idea so naturally agreed. If this is something that suits you better than the current payment options please feel free to utilise this as a method of payment for your online Detention or Chastity program. You'll need to contact me first before you apply and I will give you the details of a range of suitable Gift cards I prefer which can be purchased online and sent to me by post direct from the card issuer.
In fact I am perfectly happy to accept Gift cards as payment for most session fees (including phone sessions) if that makes life easier for you.
Speaking of Detentions, I have had the most fun over the past few weeks devising gruelling, mind twisting assignments which have proved a real challenge for some (I'm sure there are a few naughty boys and girls who will agree with this). In fact Sissy Karen recently spent a few weekends in a row wiling away the hours toiling over a particularly horrid little assignment. Well, not so little. Another naughty boy from across the pond has spent quite a large part of last year in Detention, spending hour after gruelling hour diligently working away on his assignments, duly posting each and every one of them to me to make comment on, upon their completion.
Another young lady remains less than amused by the level of intensity of her lines set as a consequence for her most willful disobedience...
Yes, I can see its going to be long nights spent by the fire for me as I sit and devise more challenging assignments in the pursuit of discipline and good behaviour! It is so much fun constructing punishments and behavioural strategies appropriate to the regulation of naughty adult boys and girls and the maintenance of order. And what better method is there to extract good behaviour from naughty people who should know better?
And just a warning to all naughty adult boys and girls out there...Detention Class is OPEN!
Actually, I am quite looking forward to the rural move, I intend to have a nice rustic classroom set up for lengthy supervised Detentions...
won't that be fun?
Ciao!
In fact I am perfectly happy to accept Gift cards as payment for most session fees (including phone sessions) if that makes life easier for you.
Speaking of Detentions, I have had the most fun over the past few weeks devising gruelling, mind twisting assignments which have proved a real challenge for some (I'm sure there are a few naughty boys and girls who will agree with this). In fact Sissy Karen recently spent a few weekends in a row wiling away the hours toiling over a particularly horrid little assignment. Well, not so little. Another naughty boy from across the pond has spent quite a large part of last year in Detention, spending hour after gruelling hour diligently working away on his assignments, duly posting each and every one of them to me to make comment on, upon their completion.
Another young lady remains less than amused by the level of intensity of her lines set as a consequence for her most willful disobedience...
Yes, I can see its going to be long nights spent by the fire for me as I sit and devise more challenging assignments in the pursuit of discipline and good behaviour! It is so much fun constructing punishments and behavioural strategies appropriate to the regulation of naughty adult boys and girls and the maintenance of order. And what better method is there to extract good behaviour from naughty people who should know better?
And just a warning to all naughty adult boys and girls out there...Detention Class is OPEN!
Actually, I am quite looking forward to the rural move, I intend to have a nice rustic classroom set up for lengthy supervised Detentions...
won't that be fun?
Ciao!
01 February 2012 @ 01:08 pm
01 February 2012 @ 10:13 am
Greetings!
and what a lovely rainy day it is here in Sydney, just perfect for over the knee spanking! Alas, I have an exciting day planned doing something else that is equally fun to do! I am going out shortly to look at a few rural properties that might be suitable for me to move to....bliss...
The image of stables, rustic woodsheds, or maybe a separate timber building that can be turned into an old country style schoolroom looms large when I think of my ideal spanking environment. Plus of course I am very much looking forward to having horses again and taking full advantage of the equestrian theme!
Now don't panic, I will still be within a reasonable driving/commutable distance to Sydney, and in most cases, the travel time by car or train to where I plan to settle won't be much different to where I am currently. I have some very exciting changes to the way I present my sessions planned so am really looking forward to a move to a private rural environment where we can really have some fun! At this stage I can't say when I will be moving, it really depends on when I find the perfect place.
I'll keep you posted on my progress, but in the meantime I will still be taking appointments at my current address
Ciao!
and what a lovely rainy day it is here in Sydney, just perfect for over the knee spanking! Alas, I have an exciting day planned doing something else that is equally fun to do! I am going out shortly to look at a few rural properties that might be suitable for me to move to....bliss...
The image of stables, rustic woodsheds, or maybe a separate timber building that can be turned into an old country style schoolroom looms large when I think of my ideal spanking environment. Plus of course I am very much looking forward to having horses again and taking full advantage of the equestrian theme!
Now don't panic, I will still be within a reasonable driving/commutable distance to Sydney, and in most cases, the travel time by car or train to where I plan to settle won't be much different to where I am currently. I have some very exciting changes to the way I present my sessions planned so am really looking forward to a move to a private rural environment where we can really have some fun! At this stage I can't say when I will be moving, it really depends on when I find the perfect place.
I'll keep you posted on my progress, but in the meantime I will still be taking appointments at my current address
Ciao!
01 January 2012 @ 10:36 am
Greetings everyone!
I just thought I'd take the opportunity to wish you a very Happy and Prosperous New Year! I do hope you enjoyed New Years Eve and saw the old year out with a joyful bang!
2011 has been a full and 'interesting' year for me with many personal challenges and unexpected changes throughout so I for one am looking forward to 2012 and intend to make it my best year ever!
I am particularly looking forward to another year of administering discipline and corporal punishment, as well as offering tutoring and training in the area of Domestic Discipline. In fact this is something I intend to spend more time doing throughout this year as it's such a rewarding and enjoyable aspect of my 'work'. I have met some wonderful people this past year who have come to me for training and guidance and it has been such a joyful and enriching experience, I look forward to meeting many more lovely people throughout 2012!
I would also like to mention that I intend to travel to Melbourne occasionally throughout 2012 so will be able to schedule appointments on each visit. I'll post information about upcoming visits on my journal including dates, times, location etc. If you have an interest in scheduling a Melbourne appointment with me please email me at mrsbirch@mrsbirch.net and let me know, I can then notify you as soon as I schedule my next visit.
One last thing before I go out for the day to enjoy the beautiful start to 2012, just a reminder that, as most of you know, I am not a great communicator as far as social media is concerned, and struggle with updating my journal on a regular basis. Sadly I am not one for spending hours in front of the computer, I much prefer to interact with people on a face to face basis or via the telephone. So if you don't hear from me for a few weeks or so, it doesn't mean I've retired, it just means I am busy doing other things - probably along the lines of attending to disciplinary matters, writing or otherwise generally living life!
Another way of telling whether I've retired or not, when the time comes (and that is not in the foreseeable future) I will make a fairly large announcement and will be looking for someone whom I can take under my wing and pass on my skills to!
Until then, I will continue to enjoy spanking, strapping, caning and otherwise disciplining naughty adult boys and girls, or teaching others to do the same! teehee...
Happy New Year!
Regards
Mrs Birch
I just thought I'd take the opportunity to wish you a very Happy and Prosperous New Year! I do hope you enjoyed New Years Eve and saw the old year out with a joyful bang!
2011 has been a full and 'interesting' year for me with many personal challenges and unexpected changes throughout so I for one am looking forward to 2012 and intend to make it my best year ever!
I am particularly looking forward to another year of administering discipline and corporal punishment, as well as offering tutoring and training in the area of Domestic Discipline. In fact this is something I intend to spend more time doing throughout this year as it's such a rewarding and enjoyable aspect of my 'work'. I have met some wonderful people this past year who have come to me for training and guidance and it has been such a joyful and enriching experience, I look forward to meeting many more lovely people throughout 2012!
I would also like to mention that I intend to travel to Melbourne occasionally throughout 2012 so will be able to schedule appointments on each visit. I'll post information about upcoming visits on my journal including dates, times, location etc. If you have an interest in scheduling a Melbourne appointment with me please email me at mrsbirch@mrsbirch.net and let me know, I can then notify you as soon as I schedule my next visit.
One last thing before I go out for the day to enjoy the beautiful start to 2012, just a reminder that, as most of you know, I am not a great communicator as far as social media is concerned, and struggle with updating my journal on a regular basis. Sadly I am not one for spending hours in front of the computer, I much prefer to interact with people on a face to face basis or via the telephone. So if you don't hear from me for a few weeks or so, it doesn't mean I've retired, it just means I am busy doing other things - probably along the lines of attending to disciplinary matters, writing or otherwise generally living life!
Another way of telling whether I've retired or not, when the time comes (and that is not in the foreseeable future) I will make a fairly large announcement and will be looking for someone whom I can take under my wing and pass on my skills to!
Until then, I will continue to enjoy spanking, strapping, caning and otherwise disciplining naughty adult boys and girls, or teaching others to do the same! teehee...
Happy New Year!
Regards
Mrs Birch
12 December 2011 @ 10:37 pm
